Have you done this, yet?

Today, as I got into the flow of my words, I realised that I might have to write something a little risquè.
A little man-on-man action.
Not that I have a whole lot of experience in that!
However, it is critical to my story.
Then I remembered that my parents have both read Marriage Unarranged, and there was a tiny scene in there, which Pops questioned, before glossing over…
How on earth will he react to this?
I am wondering if I need to have a little sticker on the front of the book, “Rated PG – Parents might need Guidance!”
Okay, so it isn’t written graphically. I’m no erotica writer, but there is still some need for the words arousal and hardness, and phrases like lips trailing over bodies…
See what I mean?
Pops, you can’t read it! 🙈 I am already imagining Mum’s comments, though she is aware of the topics that are going to be covered in book two.
But… has it piqued your interest, yet?
LOL! Bless you, Ritu. You are the best daughter ever. If you put that label on the front of your book, it will sell like crazy. 😀 ❤
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He he! Might need to mention to my publisher! 🤣
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Yes! That would be brilliant. LOL! I’m sure sexual imagery is tough to write. I think you will rock this, though. ❤
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Thank you, Sis. It’s integral to the plot, that sexual tension, but, oh so hard to write!
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I know exactly what you mean. It is not that we are embarrassed to write but just the imagination that our parents read it. And it is only about the parents 😂
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I know! I’m over forty, yet still, worried about what they will think! 🤣😳
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I am not a bit better… lol! The novella I wrote a few years ago that is still in my drawer contains such scenes too… haha.
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Ha ha! It needs to surface, Sis!!!
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Yes, eventually 😅
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Had my mother lived to 100, my books probably would have given her a heart attack. She gave me a book about the facts of life once. I looked for the interesting parts, but most of it was about having your period. My first time, I thought, “Dogs do this.” I didn’t know it was supposed to go inside, and they came in different sizes.
If your parents are anything like mine, you might want to use a ficticious name and an email address they know nothing about. 😆
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Thing is they are already aware!
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Except you’re about to take it a step further. 🙂
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Ooer! What will their reaction be?
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Lol Sis Parents Gasping ….they will cope Sis …so will you 💜💜
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I hope so, lol! 💜💜
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Haha! Very difficult situation to have to warn both your parents and kids about the content of your book! 😛
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My kids aren’t such an issue. They are teens! But parents? Another matter! 🤣
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Got it! I am myself no fan of graphic sex scenes but some stories demand them. I usually skip forward. You can advise them to skip page # – to page # !
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That might be my option. Or I give them a copy with certain pages clipped together, that they shouldn’t read!
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Haha!
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LOL I know myself I don’t know if I could write a risque scene and have my parents read it, or my kids or grandkids for that matter so I’m staying PG LOL
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He he! Sometimes, needs must, but as long as it doesn’t tip too far!
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Cute
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Thanks, Sis!
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Oh dear goodness I’m blushing at the thought of it for you ffs!! # raunchywritingproblems! Good luck! lol
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He he! I guess, at least it’s a wiring problem that will be getting published! 🤣🤣
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That true and when it’s out, it’s out…. Ooo now there’s a line 😂
I look forward to reading 🙂
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When it’s out, it’s out, indeed!!!
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What a challenge, Sis! I am very interesting in, how your are scoring. :-)) I am sure you will goal. xx Michael
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Ha ha! Well the characters definitely score!
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My parents are no longer living, but that passes my mind, too. Then, I think about all of the kids I taught. 🤔
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It’s a slippery slope when you start to worry about these things!
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You’ve made me laugh. Maybe take those pages out and give you dad a ‘clean’ version!
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That could be an option!
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Neither of my parents read any of mu stuff before they died. I think imagining mum reading would have been worse than dad though I’m sure he’d see me in it. ‘ you didn’t… did you?’
Given we see warnings for smoking in dramas I see no reason not to have parental warnings. And yes… man on man… I suppose I wasn’t imagining that after book one so intriguing.
There’s a whole other out there, writing incidents and characters that you can’t experience but have to imagine. It can be hard but necessary
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I’m trying my hardest, His Geoffleship!!!
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lol – I will admit, the moment I am reading something that makes me cringe, I just skip forward to the next chapter.
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Well there is always that option!
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The PG sticker is a good idea. The copy you give to your parents…maybe you should mark the pages that you suggest they skip with giant or many Post-Its with a summary over it, and they can uncover the Post-Its if they choose to.
Some authors write about menstruation and I’m always torn about whether to announce that some who don’t/won’t experience menstruation can skip it.
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It’s always tough wondering what to add as a warning, or not!
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more and on that score
come what may
both tomorrow and today!
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now so that you know. are you prepared to continue to segue to such great responses? lmao
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Sorry, I’m not feeling too bright today. My witty responses appear to have flown! 🤔
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spirits may have flown , but your words are shown. your countrywoman, most likely unknown to ye, has stated that one in every seven persons is from India . whopee! and np for sure.
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Well I’m definitely Indian, that’s for sure!
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of course. sorry your world is flat. nice talking to you and ciao.
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i m r rated.
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columbus thought he was there too ,. but he was in cuba. oops!
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